Good and bad. Hot and cold. Right and wrong We tend to think we live in a world that is black and white. If someone has an opinion we don’t agree with, it’s wrong. If something happens that hurts or disappoints us, it’s bad. Those we like are usually right and when an event occurs that makes us happy or helps us achieve more success, it’s good. Many of you would probably respond to what I’ve just said with one word: duh! Of course we think that if something hurts us it’s bad.